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Someone died and the mail is piling up. What the first two weeks actually require

A plain account of what has to happen in the first fortnight after a death, what can safely wait, and what each delay actually costs in dollars and exposure.

ItemWhat it means
How many certified copiesInstitutions rarely accept photocopies and often keep the certified copy they are given. Ordering ten or more at the outset costs little and saves weeks of reordering later.
Vacancy and homeowners coverageMost homeowners policies limit or exclude coverage once a house has been unoccupied for a set number of weeks. Telling the carrier about the death promptly is the cheapest protective step available.
Photograph before sortingTake pictures of every room, closet, and garage before anyone removes a single item. The images settle disputes about what was present and in what condition.
Someone died and the mail is piling up. What the first two weeks actually require

Do not close the bank account

The decedent's checking account should stay open until a court names someone with authority over it. Closing it early strands direct deposits and complicates later accounting.

A plain account of what a probate court asks an executor to produce, in the order it asks for it, and where paid help is worth the money. Rules differ by state, and nothing here substitutes for advice on your own estate.

The paperwork arrives faster than the grief settles. Within days of a death there are forms to sign at the funeral home, a house with food in the refrigerator, a phone that keeps ringing, and a stack of mail addressed to someone who can no longer open it. Most of what lands in that first fortnight is not urgent, and some of it is genuinely time-sensitive, and telling the two apart is the whole job. The useful frame is cost: every task in the early weeks either saves money, protects you from personal exposure, or can be postponed at no real price.

Certificates and keys, in that order

Certified copies of the death certificate are the currency of the next six months, and the funeral home ordinarily orders them for you within the first few days. Order more than feels reasonable. Banks, brokerages, life insurers, title companies, pension administrators, and the county clerk each want their own certified copy, and several will not return it. Prices vary by state and county, usually a modest per-copy fee with reorders costing the same, so the marginal cost of ten extra copies is small against the weeks lost reordering one at a time. Keep them in a single folder and log who received which.

Securing property is the other task that will not wait. Lock the house, change the locks if keys are unaccounted for, and take photographs of every room before anyone begins sorting. Move cash, jewelry, firearms, and titles somewhere controlled. Call the homeowners insurance carrier and say plainly that the house is now unoccupied, because most policies restrict or void coverage after a vacancy period measured in weeks, and a denied claim on a burst pipe is the single most expensive mistake available in the first month. Forward the mail, or at least collect it daily.

Stop the right payments and keep the wrong ones running

The instinct to close everything at once is the wrong one. Subscriptions, gym memberships, and recurring charitable debits should stop, and each month they run is money leaving an estate you may later have to account for. Utilities, property taxes, the mortgage, and insurance premiums should keep running, because a foreclosure notice or a lapsed policy costs far more than the payments. Do not close the decedent's checking account. Freeze it, in the sense of stopping new debits you control, but leave it in place until a court has said who has authority to move the money.

Credit cards are a special case. Notify the issuers, ask them to stop further charges, and resist paying balances out of your own pocket. Debts of the deceased are paid from the estate, in an order set by state statute, and an executor who pays a credit card ahead of a funeral bill or a tax obligation can be made personally responsible for the shortfall. That rule is the reason patience saves money here. The Internal Revenue Service is the authority on the estate's own tax obligations, including the final individual return and any income the estate earns after the death.

The will, the estate, and probate are three different things

A will is a document expressing intent. An estate is the pool of assets and debts the person left. Probate is a court process that gives a named person legal authority over that pool and then supervises what they do with it. A will by itself gives you no power to sell a car, close a brokerage account, or sign a deed. What gives you power is a piece of paper from a court, called letters testamentary or letters of administration depending on the state, and obtaining it is the first real expenditure of the process.

Not every asset passes through probate. Jointly titled real estate, retirement accounts and life insurance with named beneficiaries, and accounts with payable-on-death designations move outside the court entirely, and many estates turn out to be mostly or wholly non-probate. That is worth determining before you file anything, because filing fees, publication costs, and attorney time attach to a proceeding you may not need.

What waiting actually costs

Very little in the first two weeks has a hard deadline. Creditor claim periods, the inventory, and the final accounting all run from the date letters are issued, not the date of death, so a fortnight spent gathering statements and locating the original will is rarely expensive. What does cost money is a vacant house without insurance, a business left unattended, a lawsuit deadline expiring, or a family member quietly removing property. Those are the situations where speed pays. Everything else can hold while you find out what the estate actually contains.

The decision to hire counsel is worth pricing early rather than late. In a straightforward estate with a clear will and cooperative beneficiaries, a flat-fee engagement with a probate attorney to open the case and issue letters is often the cheapest path, because a rejected filing costs another hearing date. Contested wills, insolvent estates, out-of-state real property, and family conflict push the work toward hourly billing, and those are the cases where an unrepresented executor is most exposed.

Write down what you do and when you do it, starting now. The account you eventually file with the court, and the questions beneficiaries ask two years from now, are both easier to answer from a contemporaneous log than from memory.


UCumberlands Online Mortgage, property tax, utilities, and insurance premiums should keep being paid from estate funds where possible. A lapse on any of them costs more than the payments themselves.


Creditor claim windows, inventory due dates, and accounting deadlines are generally measured from the issuance of letters, not the date of death. Two careful weeks of preparation rarely costs anything.

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Personal liability for wrong payments

State law sets the order in which estate debts are paid. An executor who pays a low-priority creditor first can be held personally responsible for what the higher-priority claimants lose.

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A will grants no authority

Holding the original will does not let you sell a car or sign a deed. Authority comes only from letters issued by the probate court.

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Assets that skip the court

Life insurance, retirement accounts with named beneficiaries, payable-on-death bank accounts, and jointly titled real estate transfer outside probate. Identifying them first can shrink or eliminate the proceeding.

Deadlines run from letters

Creditor claim windows, inventory due dates, and accounting deadlines are generally measured from the issuance of letters, not the date of death. Two careful weeks of preparation rarely costs anything.

Flat fee versus hourly

Simple estates with a clear will are often handled for a flat fee covering the filing and the hearing. Contests, insolvency, and out-of-state property move the engagement to hourly billing.

How many certified copies

Institutions rarely accept photocopies and often keep the certified copy they are given. Ordering ten or more at the outset costs little and saves weeks of reordering later.